The Unknown Enemy
In the world good comes with the bad. There’s no running or escaping the inevitable, but only timely preparation. As human beings, we tend to love those that hurt us and hate those that help us. In many cases, we find ourselves with more enemies than friends, but the truth will reveal itself only when the time is right. Association breeds assimilation and those we are surrounded by will either raise us up to our highest potential or hold us back like crabs in a bucket. There is no in-between. The key to having fewer enemies is living your best life, learning from mistakes and fighting evil with a righteous hand!Be That Man
On the road to destination destiny, one can follow GPS, but which route will it take you? Will it take you the long way or the roads less traveled? When you become a follower there’s more trust put into whom or what you are following than you have within yourself. Following might get you to your destination, but if it had to be done all again would you know where to go? You might never reach your destination or it might take longer than expected, but stand on your own two feet and persist by any means because the only time will tell. Lead the way do not follow because there will come a time when you will be all that you have. The truth is that whenever one follows one also idolizes, and that is particularly dangerous because you are unprotected from being used, and becoming causality in the line of fire.Look Within
Do not judge a book by its cover, a person by what’s on the outside or be blinded by shiny objects. Things are not always as they appear. A person might appear to have it all because they have some fancy material objects, but deep down inside they might also have a heart as cold as ice. By no means am I saying rich people are evil because there’s a lot that are not, but tangle with the best of them and believe they will run right over you in order to get what they want. On the other hand, another person might have next to nothing, but be willing to give you what little they do have. When looking for a friend it is vital to look through the eyes and into the heart of a person in order to see who you are actually looking at because the eyes will never lie. More times than none though, what’s on the outside of a person can tell you what’s on the inside.Against Love
When you love another, you do not tell them exactly what they want to hear. Only let the truth come out your mouth. The truth may shock and at times even hurt, but sometimes people need to be grabbed and shook for a minute or two so they can get some sense! When you do not like what you are told, even when it is the truth do not go out and get a second opinion from someone who does not care. Enemies will turn you against the people in your life that you need most, people that speak of truth. Remember, the truth hurts, but it will always set you free!Road Signs
Stop! Slow down! Make a U-turn! Signs come in all colors, shapes and sizes because they are meant for one thing, direction. Every day brings different signs with different directions. One might show that you are on the right track while another might be a warning that you are playing with fire. Many times you pass signs, some big and some small, but you will not see them by living day to day and never truly feeling alive. To feel alive be aware of the beautiful world around you. While you are speeding down life’s roads be conscience of your surrounding because the sign you pass up could be the one that saves your life.Last Words
Life is short with many pot holes and a fork in the road at every stop. It is easy to get off track and hard to find a way back on, but far from impossible. Never think all is lost. Chances are you did not have much to begin with, and you cannot lose what you never had. Be strong, resilient and stand up for loved ones, because in the end, they will be the only ones by your side. Photo credit: Belongs to their respective owner.Subscribe to this blog
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Roz Bennetts
Hi William,
Well all I know is I need to spend more time looking in people’s eyes! The amount of times I’ve read a person wrong is far too many.
Yes, I believe in signs and coincidence too. Sometimes though the ‘sign’, thing or situation I’ve attracted isn’t that obvious and I fumble around wondering why something odd is happening which seems to be out of the ordinary – I’ve got one of those going on at the moment with my work. I shall try and look a bit deeper!
Roz
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William Veasley
Roz: thanks for taking the time to leave a nice comment. ( :
You should really try to spend more time looking into people’s eyes and then no one will be able fool you.
Sometimes I think about my past mistakes to kind of remind myself of what I don’t want to do and who I don’t want to be. I believe its okay to make a mistake, but only a fool makes the same mistake twice.
I find that it helps to spend more time listening than speaking, but I know you will see things crystal clear when the time is right. ( :
Best Wishes,
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Sonia
Hey Roz! I am with you when it comes to situations, but one thing I always live by is something Maya Angelou said, ““The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” That one quote has helped me get through some tough times and see people for who they really are. That is why I love getting to know people with networking. I get to see their true character and why they do what they do. Thank you so much for commenting and supporting Williams post.
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James
Hey William, all that you have said here is nothing but true. Many a times I have changed my perception because of people around me and have regretted my decisions. I believe we all go through these things so that we learn in life who to trust and whom not to. If we don’t make mistakes, we don’t learn. So I don’t regret anything anymore, I am just happy that I made mistakes and I rectified them on time, and that I will never repeat my mistakes.
William
James: thanks for the kind words! I’m glad to hear that you have learned from your mistakes. Reflection time really makes a big difference when developing personally. Somedays we need to stop laboring, reflect on our lives and recooporate our strength.
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farouk
i am happy to read your positive words in the morning, they gave me some positive energy
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Farouk: anytime my man! I hope that you have a wonderful day with many smiles!
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Hey, I am still interested in writing a guest post for you and I was wondering if you were interested?
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Lisa
Hi William, I think fear of the unknown as Tammy stated is what holds a lot of us back. Some are almost afraid to be successful too. Some may also be careful for what they wish. We sometimes have to drop the “chains” to what holds us back.
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Lisa: good point. Why fight an unknown opponent you can’t see. You can never win a battle against and opponent that can’t be seen so my advice is to learn, figure out and know your opposition (The unkown).
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Carol Minarcik
Hey William, Great advice in this artical. If everyone would follow the path you have given here, for sure they would all live a much better life. Thanks for sharing.
William
Carol: Thanks a million! ( : If we believe in the power of truth it can set us all free!
Best Wishes,
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Anshul: I totally agree with you! Mistakes can be a blessing in disquise, but only if there is a lesson learned in the process. I have made mistakes that I wouldn’t take back because they have made me who I am today.
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Hajra
Very beautifully written William!
We need to understand how relationships matter and what importance they hold for us. Once we reach out, things will be much more happier and more satisfying in the long run!
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Hajra: I am happy you liked my post! ( : Like I say, relationships can either boost us up to our highest potential or hold us back like crabs in a bucket. If we are surrounded by people that always talk negative, curse and lie then there’s no way to prosper, but likewise being surrounded by positivity, righteousness and truth will make us stronger, better, faster and smarter. ( :
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Kesha, The Uncommon Chick
“Things are not always as they appear..” << tell me about it!
I love this post and sharing it all over the place!
By the way, William, we need to get connected because we have the same motto – mine is Live Different – and I feel like we may have a lot in common.
Talk soon!
~Kesha
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Kesha: I feel like there are few real men today. Sometimes it’s hard to recognize the fake women, but things most surely are not always as they seem!
Anyways, you should shoot me an email sometime. I look forward to checking out your blog! ( :
Best Wishes,
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Adrienne
William my man, it’s been ages since we’ve bumped into each other. What a wonderful surprise to see you here writing at Sonia’s place. What an amazing lady she is and you’ve shared such a terrific topic with us too.
Don’t judge a book by it’s cover. Man have I ever been guilty of that. It’s taken me years before I finally “got it’. I always have been of the belief that you should treat others the way you want to be treated so when I caught myself judging others without knowing them was not a very appealing quality I had.
I’ve been so wrong so many times and so ashamed of myself for even going there.
I also remember several years ago when our local news was doing a piece on homelessness. They had a guy that was sitting on a street corner and most people have the impression that they are just bums. Have no desire to have a better life, etc. Come to find out the back story to a few of these people was heartbreaking so it was a huge wake up call for me that things are not always as they appear.
Great lessons I learned..
Thanks for sharing this and again, great to see you.
~Adrienne
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William
Adrienne: Hey! I couldn’t help, but to bump into you, you’re everywhere! Yes, I am happy that Sonia gave me the opportunity and she has an awesome community!
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There are some truely amazing people in this world. Some of which are rich and some poor, but amazing none the less. At one point in my life, I was homeless and I’ve meet some righteous people, but also people that are as evil as they come! I don’t believe we should respect the poor or idolize the rich, but only judge man by their righteousness.
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Sylviane Nuccio
Hi William,
Great article here. It’s always easier to be like the crowd and always a bit tougher to be different. Because when you’re different people always have something negative to say about you.
But to me, unless you are different, your life will be boring and chances that you are going to make a difference for others are slim.
So, yes, be different and stay that way
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Sylviane: Hey! You are so right that different is what makes life exciting, but it is also impossible to be another person or achieve their accomplishments. We were all created differently, but equally and people should connect with their heart and figure out who’s in the mirror. That is the only way to really prosper I believe.
Anyways best wishes,
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Carol Lynn
My favorite comment: don’t tell people what they want to hear… tell them the truth! Great advice and hard to live by, especially when we’re taught to be “nice” and not say certain things.
It’s also quite true that you have to look within people to discover who they are. You can’t judge outwardly and plenty of times you can’t even judge after one or two impressions. Sometimes you have to be patient and dig down to the truth.
These are some wise words here. Thanks for giving us something to think about!
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William
Carol: Thanks for the awesome comment! The first impression means the most, but you are right that we shouldn’t judge off of the first one. I guess the first impression should be just that, and impression not judgement.
It’s not hard to tell the truth, but it’s hard to find a nice way of telling it sometimes. I found that most times people do not want to hear the truth mostly for customs or traditions, but I am still working on finding nice ways of speaking truth.
Best wishes,
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Jeevan Jacob John
Great Article, William
In my opinion, the only thing that holds us back is our own mind. Once we realize our mind’s potential and our beliefs to control us (And once we tweak them), then we will be able to face any obstacle that life throws at us.
As with following, I don’t completely agree that following means idolizing. For instance: I follow other bloggers just like me, to learn from them (of course, doesn’t mean that I listen and agree to all of what they say; sometimes, I disagree because I have my own opinion on things).
Agree with all of the others though
Only thing is that these things are very very easy to say, but very much hard to live by (especially with losing hope. We can be the person with most hope in the world, but when it comes to tough situations, all may break lose).
Anyways, appreciate the post
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William
Jeevan: Thanks for the comment my friend. You are a good reader because you provide an arguement. Everyone seems to be so able to agree upon everything today, but I value your opinions.
If you, me or anyone is surrounded on a daily basis by a negative person than no matter how strong we are mentally or spiritually we’ll be affected. Sometimes I believe it is best to eliminate the problem until there is no longer a problem, for however long that maybe.
When I talk of idolizing and following, I do not mean Twitter or something like that, but following blindly and trustingly. I mean, if a person asks you to jump and your only response is how high? Then there is a problem.
You on the other hand, you do not follow. You might learn from another person, but you don’t follow and that’s because you have your own beliefs like you have about my post.
Does that sound crazy?
Anyways best wishes,
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Jason "J-Ryze" Fonceca
Great stuff, William, and a breath of fresh air from all the marketing stuff, and even personal dev stuff around.
I totally agree with your points, and aim to live by ‘em
It seems like you’re known around these parts (Adrienne, for example), and it’s a pleasure to meet ya!
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Jason: I appreciate the kind words and nice to meet you as well! I am not that known and probably will never be because most people don’t want to hear the truth, but I am happy and satisfied with whomever I do reach with my words.
Best Wishes,
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Jason "J-Ryze" Fonceca
I’ve felt the same way, it’s pretty intense.
But I think it’s an illusion — most people who boldly tell the truth, develop a following, from my studies
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Sue Price
Hi William
I love this article. The part I relate to most is when one follows one also idolizes. I spent much of my life doing that. I was introduced to personal development at a young age and have had too many people I made my guru. I have now learned to learn from others and just take what is right for me.
I also love this quote “If you know the enemy and you know you need not fear the results of a hundred battles.” – Sun Tzu – so true.
Thanks for a great article WIlliam.
Sue
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William
Sue: I’m glad you loved my article! That puts a big smile on my face. ( :
I can relate to you because I have been bad about idolizing others in the past. I put a stop to that and I just judge people based on their righteousness. And, like you said, It’s always best to decide what is best and not let others decide for us.
Best Wishes,
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Francesca
I really liked your article. It kept me thinking about my life. Also, helped me appreciate that I am on track with speaking the truth, even though it hurts. It’s the right thing. Thanks.